Car trips breed conversation and during today’s ride home from visiting K, H and I were casually chatting about life after thirty, babies last name changes etc… When we realized we just don’t do things proposing, we just assume forever.
And we both like it that way. People make such a big deal but look at the divorce rate…. Maybe the secret is in assuming forever.
We will change our last names to a hyphen version, we’ll probably have a reception to celebrate it but we won’t have a ceremony. We don’t need to, our forever started when we were 18 and what it really deserves is recognition and celebration.
This is why our love is real and ready for life after 30… We both just assume forever.
can’t believe I’m planning her 30th birthday already.