Car trips breed conversation and during today’s ride home from visiting K, H and I were casually chatting about life after thirty, babies last name changes etc… When we realized we just don’t do things proposing, we just assume forever.

And we both like it that way. People make such a big deal but look at the divorce rate…. Maybe the secret is in assuming forever.

We will change our last names to a hyphen version, we’ll probably have a reception to celebrate it but we won’t have a ceremony. We don’t need to, our forever started when we were 18 and what it really deserves is recognition and celebration.

This is why our love is real and ready for life after 30… We both just assume forever.

can’t believe I’m planning her 30th birthday already.

I made an account on known donor registry just to start looking at what our options are and someone already offered to be our donor and I don’t know if that’s awesome or weird.

Anyways we aren’t trying any time soon. Just… Looking at options..

At 19, I read a sentence that re-terraformed my head: ‘The level of matter in the universe has been constant since the Big Bang.’

In all the aeons we have lost nothing, we have gained nothing — not a speck, not a grain, not a breath. The universe is simply a sealed, twisting kaleidoscope that has reordered itself a trillion trillion trillion times over.

Each baby, then, is a unique collision — a cocktail, a remix — of all that has come before: made from molecules of Napoleon and stardust and comets and whale tooth; colloidal mercury and Cleopatra’s breath: and with the same darkness that is between the stars between, and inside, our own atoms.

When you know this, you suddenly see the crowded top deck of the bus, in the rain, as a miracle: this collection of people is by way of a starburst constellation. Families are bright, irregular-shaped nebulae. Finding a person you love is like galaxies colliding. We are all peculiar, unrepeatable, perambulating micro-universes — we have never been before and we will never be again. Oh God, the sheer exuberant, unlikely face of our existences. The honour of being alive. They will never be able to make you again. Don’t you dare waste a second of it thinking something better will happen when it ends. Don’t you dare.
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PREP TIME: 30 min.

MAKES: 6 servings


2 cans (5 oz. each) chunk light tuna in water, drained, flaked

1 pkg. (6 oz.) STOVE TOP Stuffing Mix for Chicken

1 cup KRAFT Shredded Mild Cheddar Cheese

3/4 cup water

1 carrot, shredded

1/3 cup KRAFT Real Mayo Mayonnaise or MIRACLE WHIP Dressing

2 Tbsp. CLAUSSEN Sweet Pickle Relish


COMBINE ingredients. Refrigerate 10 min.

HEAT large nonstick skillet sprayed with cooking spray on medium heat. Use ice cream scoop to add 1/3-cup portions of tuna mixture, in batches, to skillet.

FLATTEN into patties with back of spatula. Cook 6 min. or until golden brown on both sides, carefully turning patties after 3 min.

I’m totally down.



pronunciation | ‘red-a-“man-sE

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this looks like a perfect date ugh




this looks like a perfect date ugh

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